Wednesday, February 19, 2014

GOOD NEWS!

Loved ones:

Thanks to all your prayers and support we'll be heading home much happier.

We checked out with the doctor this morning and got the pathology report. Not only did they not find any cancer outside the endometrial lining, the totality of the cancer they did find evaluated to a grade 2 instead of a grade 3, meaning radiation is not recommended.

Instead Peggy will be doing intensive regular followups in Dallas on a pretty constant schedule to verify that she remains cancer free. The specimens will be rechecked for a second opinion in Dallas and the doctor there will set the followup schedule but we were told at least monthly for the first 90 days, every 90 days for a year and semi-annually after that.

We  have clearly felt and seen the hand of the Lord in answer to all your prayers. Thank you for all your love and prayers. We feel so blessed to be in this place and time surrounded by all of you.

The hospital and doctors were very competent and attentive. It has been a great experience thanks especially to Danny and Norma who have been so helpful. It has been a treat to get to know them better.

After I took Peggy for some shopping and stopped by the Monterrey temple, she really needed a nap. We are planning to start for Dallas Thursday or Friday and be home this weekend. I expect we'll break it up into two hops and not push too hard. We are grateful for painkillers.


Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Yesterday was a decent day.  I made it through the day with tylenol but took a pain killer in the evening and slept relatively well.  Showering is my favorite time of the day.  That moist warmth just feels good.  No word from the Dr. yesterday nor this morning. Other than the face to face communication at the hospital, he communicates via email.  He gave us his cell but we chose to send an email this morning asking for news or better in person in the morning at our appointment?  Will keep you updated.  Just got a response from the Dr. saying he will have everything ready when we meet in the morning.  I have spent the morning learning a little about the lymph system.  Our body is a miracle at work on a daily basis. It sheds a little light to that song, My Body is a Temple That Needs the Greatest Care".   From the time of the diagnosis I have felt a kick in the pants. Hope I get smarter. (Nobody better respond to that!)

Monday, February 17, 2014

Monday and feeling better

No pathology report yet.  We came home from the hospital yesterday.  We are in such good hands here at Danny and Norma's.  There home and setting is beautiful, ample and most importantly full of love.  She had a hysterectomy within recent years so she is in the know!.  I was able to stretch out the time between pain pills so I am trying tylenol today.  Dad, Carl takes me for a walk every little bit.  It feels like the recovery is moving along really well.  God is good!
Will report again as we learn more.  We are hoping the Dr. will call later today, if not we will call him in the AM.  Thanks for the continued love and prayers!! Heaven is in charge.

Saturday, February 15, 2014

Another day under way

Today has been a little more painful but I think that is not too unusual for the third day.  Surely everyday gets better and better.  The Dr. said this AM we should have the pathology reports back by Monday in the afternoon.  We are expecting to be released tomorrow.  That is a double edge sword.  It will be good to be at Danny and Norma's home but a little scary to leave the watchful eye of those who attend.  We walk around the hospital every hour to try to maintain some movement and drink lots of water to keep flushing.  Poco a poco.  

Hugs and kisses,

Friday, February 14, 2014

Let the discomfort begin

Morning:
Feeling pretty perky while the drugs are flowing. Been fasting since Wednesday, but I finally got a sip



Night:
So they left the epidermal in on a very low dose until the afternoon.  Within an hour or two I started feeling it.  They have given me another shot and will continue to do so until I leave.  All the tubes are out except the port for injections for antibiotics, pain and something for bloating.  We have been impressively attended to. I am told that this Dr is well sought after.  We will now wait the pathology report then he thinks if all is will be able travel a few days later.  any follow up he might recommend we hope to do in Texas. 

Carl's cousin whom we will stay with after the hospital have been a tremendous asset.  He came to hospital from the first and helped us through paper work and acquainting us with the hospital.  They come by often and check on us.  It has been fun to spend time with them.

I love family all over the country plus the many acquaintances.  Thank you each!

Thursday, February 13, 2014

2/13

I had an anxious night but did sleep.  We are here in the hospital.  (Very adequate and all are attentive)  I am glad I have at least some command of the language.  Gratefully, Carl and Danny are both here and can answer what I can't.  I am feeling much more peaceful this AM.  Carl and Danny gave me a blessing and I felt like all the ice melted.




Mid-day:

Doctor Saleh came in a few minutes ago and previewed the operation. The MRI came back quite good. There is no sign of cancer outside the uterus. They did see an apparently unrelated dark spot on the pancreas that he will check out during the surgery. He will do the complete hysterectomy including the ovaries and cervix along with the lymph nodes. He also does an "abdominal wash".

All that will go to Pathology and results should be back within a week. Depending on the pathology report, they will recommend further treatment. It is possible no radiation would be recommended, it's on the borderline right now. The cancer is probably a stage 1a or 1b (contained) and the grade 3 agressiveness may be adjusted depending on the full pathology (he says it can vary up to 30% from the biopsy)

She should be in around 2 hours so around 1:00 to 1:30

I got into her room early to set up this computer and work on a pressing freelance job while she is "busy". She is in room 205.

They are giving her an epidural for the surgery and she will be on IV drugs (probably morphine) for 24 hours afterwards for pain.

I will do a Hangout when they bring her out of surgery but don't expect mom to be responsive.

Love you guys...everyone of you.

Dad

Later afternoon:

I just spoke with the surgeon, Peggy is in post-op for 2 or 3 more hours.

As expected the cancer appeared to be confined to the uterus. Everything expected was removed, 6 or 7 lymph nodes on each side were a bit enlarged (but did not appear cancerous) so they were removed. The area on the pancreas he was checking was not an issue. There was a small cyst on the liver that was normal. He mentioned they found a small hernia and fixed it.

The entire abdominal cavity is washed and all the liquid collected for pathology. They will check everything for any additional cancer cells.

The operation was a very positive success, in other words. The surgeon saw no evidence of cancer apart from the known area in the endometrial lining. The pathologists will give the final word on a microscopic level, but at this point he thinks there is complete removal.

Thanks for all your prayers in Peggy's behalf. Danny, Norma and Dalein have been here most of the day so we are a happy group.

I don't suppose Peggy will be awake for a while but I will do a Hangout with you kids at 5:00pm CST. She should be in the room by then.

I have to say that I have been very impressed with the doctors, nurses, hospital and the open friendly treatment. Everyone has been gracious and quick to communicate, very professional in thier manner. Compared to my experiences in US hospitals, they are much more open and communicative, very efficient. I spoke with the surgeon, the gynecologist who referred us, the anesthesiologist, etc. Very impressive.

Thank you all, 

Dad

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

2/12

We were slow getting here and visited for a bit before getting to a computer.  I shared today's journal entry but lost it about the time we got to the border while I was trying to get on the internet.  I will share what I remember.  We left this AM about 6:15.  My body was feeling a little more anxious today.  It is kind of like needing to go to the bathroom when you are out and about and you just wait until you are close to home.  Somehow the body knows that and goes into panic mode.  Asi es hoy.  I was telling Dad how interesting it is that the body psychologically operates.  As soon as I was diagnosed I felt more twinges and as the surgery gets closer the more it feels.  So my question is "how do it know" or is it Heavenly Father's way of taking care until help arrives.  

It was nice to get an extra hug from Cara and Wes as they left for seminary.

We are here and comfortable and Dad will call Curtis post surgery and have him set up a conference call.

Thank you for strengthening me and giving me courage.
We made it after 15 hours. Danny and Norma have a beautiful home and are very gracious to host us. Peggy is having her last piece of toast before fasting for the surgery.

Carl

Viva la Mexico

Just to let you know I just spoke with the navigator in St George. She was not able to get anything concrete as far as cost and also said that I would probably have to go to Salt Lake which has its pluses as well. Name Anna would be close by but all in all we're feeling confident in what we're doing and everything will be okay. Just wanted to let you know we love you and thanks for your prayers and support couldn't have a better family.
Love mom, Peggy, grandma and recovering Coke aholoc.  8 days and counting ; )

2/11

After talking with Brad Crosby and having doctors he works with look at moms information,  Mom and Dad feel a great urgency to have they hysterectomy as soon as possible.  The two options they were weighing out were to go see a Dr in Mexico that my Dad's family has been to, or to come to Utah and get started with a scan in St George and determine from there where and who would do the surgery.
Mom felt a strong pull towards Brad and St. George obviously because there is familiarity there and she knows she'd be in good hands.  But still with some unknowns as far as timing and other logistics with coming to Utah and , they decided to go with the Mexico option.
They both feel good about the Doctor there and the care she'll receive. They will leave early tomorrow morning and get to Monterrey in the evening. Her scan is scheduled for first thing Thursday morning and the surgery (hysterectomy) is scheduled for noon. They anticipate they will be there for about a week, 2 days in the hospital and another 2-3 days at my Dad's cousins (uncle?), then they'll go back to Texas.
They and we feel so grateful for all the
prayers and fasting and concern and willingness to help. 
We love you all and feel blessed to have family to lean on when the goin gets rough.
Just wanted to bring you all up to speed with what's happening.   We'll be praying all day Thursday if you want to keep joining us in that!
Anna

Monday, February 10, 2014

Today's update 2/11

I started the day going to the OB-GYN dr to get the records to send to Brad Crosby, Danny (Mexico) and the ward member at Texas Oncology.  Brad has drs. lined up that can do it.  We are just trying to work with a financial planner to see how insurance could be worked through.  The same with the Texas agency.  We are supposed to meet with someone tomorrow but they don't work if the school shuts down and it looks like they won't have school tomorrow because of ice. Dad is communicating with a dr. cousin Danny Taylor recommended in Monterrey.  We got an email tonight from our insurance saying they received our application and to call them tomorrow.  Each of them have told me to have the surgery first.  We are pursuing everything that comes to mind.

I got the wheat grass grower and have started the seeds soaking, got the apricot seeds and am feeling squeemish just looking at it all.  I'll do it though.  Had my oatmeal with blue berries and walnuts (W/O sugar)  I've decided to not wake up in the morning until lunch.  Salad sounds much better.  I did have a good smoothie full of  carrots and greens.  Life is good.  

I love you guys.  Thanks mucho

Mom, Peggy, Grandma

Thanks for such a good day!

(after a Sunday of joined family fasting and prayer)

Just wanted to say thanks for a great day.  I just feel charged with every call, text and email.  It feels pretty humbling.  We will update regularly.

Many thanks,



--
Peggy 

So, where to begin

I was born of goodly parents...fast forward 60 years...I have been dealing with post menopausal bleeding for about  year and a half now.  It got worse this fall so I finally decided to go to a Dr. In the course of the last several months and finally a biopsy they have diagnosed endometrial cancer.  They haven't defined a stage yet but have classified it as a level  three.  One being a slow grower and three fast growing.  They have recommended a complete hysterectomy and radiation.  If surgery can't be scheduled asap they want to start with radiation to slow down  and shrink the growth until surgery can be scheduled.     So, there you have it.  I was a little surprised but have continued to feel relatively peaceful.  

We shared with the kids yesterday and had a tender exchange with them last night.  Already this morning they have done some extensive research and have got me geared for a strict nutrition regimen.  Those darlings of mine.

The reason for sharing is the additional prayers and the power  that comes from your faith as well.  I really do feel well.  We should know more this next week.  We will keep you posted.  We love you and express love and appreciation for prayers from a huge family network.  What more could a person hope for.  What do people do without the support of family!


Much love,

Peggy